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Just about...being a "Father"

A new world greeted them with smile and happiness when they... "Just met" and soon for them the wedding bells rang...

Now, they are happily lost in their own world & together are learning to set-
up a 'Home’ of their own... away from what was a home for them a little earlier in the year....That's "his" daughter & "his" son in-law.
..Being very adorable, the house has become little less chirpy after her moving out…..
…."He" now does feel the boredom...but will never show it off...
Because "he" is the father ...and expected to put on a stern face & always remain a 'matter of fact' person.....

He is all set to explore & build-up a learning curve that may see him well in life in about a couple of years from now. After his graduation he may probably start living away from home in a distant land in pursuit of excellence...That's "His" son
Being the darling of the house, "he" is sure to miss him but will never come to express it...
Because "he" is a father...and is expected to remain a strict disciplinarian......

Long years away from today..."he" did not fall in love nor had "he" ever met her. However, "he" was married to her because their horoscopes matched .They do remain poles apart on temperaments... but they get on famously together...That's his wife and "his" life companion.
Now, whenever she takes a short vacation to be with her parents..."he" does miss her a lot but will never speak it out...
..Because "he" is a father of their two grown up children...and expected not to show any emotions...

"He" never could have gone through the different & difficult phases of life with a reassuring calmness... and this "he" owes it to them..."his" parents...who are always there to remind "him" that staying positive makes life little more comfortable and little less harassing......
Now whenever "he" finds himself little helpless.... "he" feels very reluctant to ask their advice...
Because now "he" is a 'father' of their two grown-up grand children...and therefore expected to be Worldly 'wise'...

Being simply a living mortal even "he" has the right to’ ‘cry’, right to feel ‘helpless’ and at times may be even get ‘scared’ of “darkness”…but "he" has to rise above this because now "he" is FATHER.. and …his children will always look up to "him" as their 'shield and anchor’.
For a child a “FATHER” will always remain the learning curve…for.. 'a dignified and a quality life’ and I know that ...because I am a father too..!

May 'God' give every ‘CHILD’ a ‘FATHER’...Who is Loving, Caring and always there …with smile and confidence to make his child say “MY DADDY STRONGEST..!

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Shriram said…
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Shriram said…
“MY DADDY STRONGEST"..!.....HAPPY FATHERS DAY....U do wonders with words!!
shyleja said…
I loved the blog. You make the simplest words look so beautiful.
This one will always remain my most cherished.
Happy Father's Day
We all know who the 'he' is here :-) Very beautifully written....

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